What’s in a name?

When I was nine years old, my dad took me to a dinner banquet he had been invited to that featured the famed sportscaster, Howard Cosell. I was the only kid in the room. After what felt like a very long dinner and a very boring speech, guests were invited to come up and meet Howard Cosell and Lamar Hunt, the owner of the Kansas City Chiefs and an NFL icon.

The man who had given my dad the tickets handed me an official NFL football and suggested I get it signed. And I did. We stood in line, shook their hands, collected their autographs, and went home. That football became a prized possession—perfect for show-and-tell—and eventually earned a place of honor on a shelf in my bedroom.

Do you know where that football is today?  Yeah… me neither.

A few months later, when football season rolled around, the value of actually playing with the ball far outweighed the value of the signatures written on it. I was nine.

As I grew up, I managed to collect several more autographs from professional athletes. I’m really going to date myself here—most of you may have to Google these names. Growing up in Lawrence, Kansas, Gale Sayers visited our Boy Scout troop. Kansas City Royals greats like John Mayberry, Darrell Porter, and Dan Quisenberry or Jim ‘Catfish’ Hunter and Lou Pinella signed items that I carefully stored in a scrapbook.

Do you know where that scrapbook is today? Yeah… me neither.

Somewhere along the way, I realized something important. The real value was never in the name written on a ball or a piece of paper. The value was in knowing the person behind the name. I no longer wanted signatures—I wanted relationships.

In many ways, professional athletes are still idolized today. People wear their names, cheer for them, and follow them closely. But most only know what they see from the stands or on a screen. They know the name—but not the person.

Isaiah 6 gives us one of the most powerful pictures of worship in all of Scripture. The prophet is given a vision of heaven: God seated on a throne, seraphim flying above Him, calling out in worship. The scene is so overwhelming that it shakes the temple itself and brings Isaiah to his knees in confession and repentance.

But if we read this passage only in our English translations, we can miss something significant. We see words like Lord and LORD Almighty and understand they refer to God—but Isaiah was using specific names for God, and those names carried deep meaning for those who truly knew Him.

“In the year King Uzziah died, I saw Adonai seated on a throne.”

And the angels were calling to one another: “Holy, holy, holy is Yahweh Almighty.”

God reveals His names because He longs to be known.

Adonai means Master or Sovereign One. It is both a name and a title. When Isaiah uses this name, he is placing himself in the position of a servant – a slave – before his Master. He sees God’s authority and power as His robe fills the entire temple. Sovereignty of this magnitude in human hands would be terrifying. But Adonai is all-seeing, all-knowing, and all-loving. He makes no mistakes. He allows nothing without reason or purpose.

Yahweh is the most personal name of God—the name first revealed to Moses at the burning bush. When Moses asked who he should say had sent him, God replied, “Tell them I Am has sent you.” Yahweh simply means I Am. The eternal, self-existent, ever-present God.

Isaiah didn’t just know about God. He knew Him. He knew Adonai, the Sovereign One. He knew Yahweh, the holy and personal God. God was not a concept to Isaiah—He was a person. And because Isaiah knew God by name, he could worship Him in every circumstance.

In the end, what’s in a name? Everything—when the name leads you to truly know the One behind it.

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Every day with Jesus!

I like to be good at whatever I do. Some might call that a character flaw—and they may be right—but if I’m going to do something, I at least want a chance to succeed or not embarrass myself. In sports, I want to be competitive. If I’m teaching, I want to know the material and explain it well. That usually requires preparation, practice, and sometimes the right tools.

Over the years I’ve often said, “This job would be easier if I had the right tool.” Whether it’s carpentry, mechanics, cooking, or woodworking, having the proper equipment matters. But having the right tools doesn’t guarantee success. Every time I buy a new golf club, I’m reminded of the saying: “It’s not the arrow; it’s the Indian.”

Most of us want our lives to count. We want to look back and know we mattered. If that resonates with you, Peter’s words in his second letter should be deeply encouraging:

“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature…” 2 Peter 1:3–4

Peter understood struggle. He was a fisherman—nothing impressive by cultural standards. He was impulsive, outspoken, and fearful enough to deny Jesus three times. Yet something changed. And Peter is now pointing us to what made the difference.

Jesus said, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” That word life is the same one Peter uses. Everything we need for a full, God-honoring life has already been given to us through Jesus.

By grace, God has supplied the tools:

  • Knowledge of Him – We can truly know God
  • Calling – Our lives have meaning and purpose
  • Goodness – God gives what is best, not merely what is easy
  • Promises – Our future is secure
  • Divine nature – Changed lives empowered by the Holy Spirit

But tools alone don’t produce results. Again, it’s not just the arrow—it’s the Indian. So Peter continues:

“For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness… For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive.” 2 Peter 1:5–8

We are called to make every effort—to practice, to grow, to become proficient in life and godliness. God supplies the tools; we must learn to use them.

Faith is the starting point—confidence in who God is. From there we grow in goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness, and finally love. That last word matters. Love is the goal, but Peter reminds us it doesn’t appear fully formed. It isn’t the first tool in the list. Rather, love is built through a life shaped by obedience, discipline, and perseverance in the power of the Holy Spirit.

All the tools, all the right equipment – Go and make every effort, every day with Jesus.

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Undefeated?

I drove the shuttle on Tuesday night. It was an extra shift, but they needed more drivers as we welcomed home IU fans returning from Monday night’s College Football Championship Game. On my very first run, I picked up a woman I’d guess was in her 70s. The entire shuttle was filled with IU fans, all swapping stories from an unforgettable weekend.

This woman shared how thrilling it was to witness a championship that capped off an undefeated season. Then she casually added that she had also been in attendance back in 1976, when Bobby Knight led an undefeated Indiana basketball team to an NCAA championship. Two undefeated championship seasons—decades apart—and she had seen them both. Hands down, she won “top story of the night.”

Undefeated. It’s rare in sports for teams to never lose. The 1972 Miami Dolphins pulled it off. It has never happened in Major League Baseball (162 games is a long season), nor in the NBA or NHL. In college football, it has happened 64 times in the past 90 years, with Notre Dame leading the way at six. But with the expanded playoff schedule, IU became the first team to go 16–0 since Yale did it in 1894.

I’ve been part of a couple of undefeated baseball teams—and once, miraculously, an undefeated co-ed softball team with a young marrieds small group. That story is for another day.

Undefeated seasons are rare, and they’re worth celebrating. Most of us, however, are far more familiar with “the agony of defeat” (and if you know that reference, you’re showing your age). Life reminds us often that we don’t always win. Jesus was honest about that reality. He told His followers, then and now, “In this world you will have trouble.” And he told Peter that he would fail and deny him three times. John echoes that truth in his first letter, reminding us that none of us are undefeated when it comes to sin:

“If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:8–9)

We are not called to be perfect. Sinless perfection is unattainable for humans born with a sin nature. God knows that—and we need to know it too. That’s why Jesus is our only hope. He never intended our failures, our struggles, or even our sin to define us or defeat us. That’s why He could say, “You will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

Jesus went undefeated. And through Him, we are invited to live in His victory over sin and death.

The apostle Paul puts it this way in Romans 8:

“If God is for us, who can be against us? … Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? … No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.”

We may not be undefeated—but we are not defeated. In Christ, we are more than conquerors. Our story isn’t defined by a flawless record, but by a faithful Savior. When we fall, we can be forgiven. When we struggle, we can be strengthened. When we face trouble, we can stand in victory—not because of what we’ve done, but because of what Christ has already accomplished.

So, live boldly. Confess quickly. Trust deeply. And walk confidently in the truth that nothing—no failure, no hardship, no power in all creation—can separate you from the love of God in Christ Jesus.

Undefeated? No.

Defeated? Absolutely not.

More than conquerors—always.

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Don’t Make Me Count to…

Three!  You all knew what came next. If you didn’t use that tactic trying to get your kids to do what you told them, your parents probably did.  You know. You tell your kids to head upstairs to bed and they don’t move. So you say One! They still don’t move. TWO! and they jump up and run upstairs.  I don’t know if anyone knows what would happen if a parent ever got to three. I was never adventurous enough to find out.  I always knew that if we were outside in the backyard playing for the whiffle championship and Mom said it was time to come in. That was like the two minute warning.  We could probably get a couple more at bats in before she yelled out again. Even after the second call, we knew we still could squeeze a little more play in before… Dad let out a whistle that could be heard in the next county and then it was game over. See you boys in the morning!

Do we do that with God? Ever? He tells us to do something and we act like we didn’t hear him. He says it again and still no movement on our part. What is it that will eventually get us to jump up and obey? Why do we drag our feet sometimes? How high will God count? When we consider the life of Abraham, the thing that always amazes me is that in Genesis 12:1 God tells Abram (he hadn’t changed his name yet) to pack up his family and move to a country that God would show him. And the next thing we read is “So Abram left.”  Really? No ONE, TWO, I mean it. Don’t make me get to three!  No. Abram ‘left, as the LORD had told him.”

I just started a personal study on the prophets of the Old Testament and for whatever reason decided to start with Elijah. He is interesting because he was an unknown person from an unknown town. God did some amazing things through Elijah. The three year drought, a miraculous supply of food, raise the dead, battle a wicked king and his even more wicked wife. His greatest may have been his calling down fire from heaven and the defeat of the prophets of Baal.  But do you know how his ministry started? I Kings 17.  His first confrontation with King Ahab has some powerful words and then God calls him to go hide in a ravine. God cared for him in that ravine by having ravens bring him bread and he drank from the brook, until the brook dried up. Then God told him to go to Zarephath and stay there. I would have wanted to get back to fighting the king – hiding in a ravine and now Zarephath, really?  He meets a widow, she uses the last of her flour and oil to feed him and then he speaks a miracle from God and the flour and oil never run out. Her only son dies and Elijah raises him from the dead.  God at each turn kept him in obscurity. Telling him to go hide – then go to stay with the widow. After some amazing things happened. And each time the scripture tells us “So he did what the Lord told him.” “So he went to Zarephath.” Throughout his life, God spoke and Elijah obeyed. No counting to three!

How many times have we missed out on blessings, or delayed blessings, or caused ourselves hardship, because we hesitated? We waited until God got to two, or three, or four?  Chuck Swindoll, one of my favorite pastors/authors, says this: “A promise fulfilled is often the result of our obedience. When promises have conditions, our obedience precedes God’s provision. Be careful about any teaching that leads to passivity. Resting in the Lord is one thing; passive indifference is something else entirely.”

Let’s begin to exercise the “So he got up and went” muscle when God is directing our way. Or when he gives us a command in scripture – So he got up and did the thing God commanded!  God calls us to be people of prayer – so he got up a little earlier and spent time praying and listening to God. God calls us to be people of the word – so she went to bed a little earlier and read the scriptures. God calls us to love our neighbors – so they introduced themselves and invited them to share a meal.  

What is God calling you to do? Why are you hesitating? There is blessing in the obedience!

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Say/Do

Last Sunday night at our church, the Senior High group studied Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. Pastor Jordan has been leading us through a series called “All of Jesus,” where we’re discovering the person and character of Christ throughout all of Scripture—both Old and New Testaments.

The Sermon on the Mount, found in Matthew 5–7, is the first recorded public teaching of Jesus. Years ago, while preaching through Matthew’s Gospel, I spent several weeks studying this sermon. Discussing this sermon with the freshman boys last Sunday, reminded me of a phrase I learned during my study years ago, maybe you have heard of it,  the “Say/Do Ratio.”

A man I used to meet for breakfast shared this idea with me. A Say/Do Ratio measures the reliability of a person by comparing the commitments they make (say) and the commitments they fulfill (do). Ideally, that ratio is 1:1—meaning your actions match your words. Your life demonstrates what you claim to believe.

Unfortunately, some people talk a lot but fail to follow through. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus challenges that very mindset. He reminds us that faith is not just about what we know or say—the Pharisees were experts at both. In Matthew 5, He repeats the phrase, “You have heard that it was said…” followed by “But I tell you…,” each time raising the standard from outward knowledge to inward transformation to renewed, deeper action.

For example, Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment.” In other words, you say, “Don’t murder,” but I say, “Don’t even harbor anger.”

The Pharisees tried to make salvation about perfectly following rules, creating a self-righteous culture where they were the “knowers,” “sayers,” and “doers.” But Jesus declared that salvation is not about making ourselves righteous, because that’s impossible. True righteousness is a gift from God that transforms how we live.

When we receive that righteousness, our Say/Do Ratio should reflect it. If we say we follow Jesus—if we proclaim He is our Savior and has forgiven our sins—then our “doing” should prove it.

The Apostle John wrote something similar in 1 John 1:5–7:
“This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.”

As we enter the holiday season—Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s—it’s a time to remember all God has done. We give thanks for His faithfulness, celebrate His gift of Jesus, and look forward to new beginnings. These next few weeks will offer many chances to live out our faith—through kindness, generosity, and love.

Let’s make sure our Say/Do Ratio reflects the light of Christ in all we do. May others see in our lives the living truth of the gospel we proclaim.

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Delayed but Delivered

I don’t know if it is just me but I have a new unbelievable story every time I get on an airplane. If you want an adventure travel with me. Also, be prepared to be a part of a sermon illustration in the process. I am writing these words sitting in the library at Crown College as Sari attends the Board of Trustees meetings. That picture is my view from the library. Crown is one of our denomination’s colleges and located in St. Bonifacious, Minnesota just outside the twin cities. A beautiful campus with rolling hills, fall colors and a really nice golf course (which I have never played…yet) just down the road. While my view working from the 4th floor library is magnificent, getting here is the topic of conversation and another testimony to God’s sovereignty and our need to just trust him.
 
I love flying, but I have found that as I rise in age, my anxiety level also rises when travelling. Connections, traffic, flight delays and needing to get where I am going for an early morning meeting has added to my diminishing number of gray hairs. I usually try to book direct flights unless it doesn’t make financial sense. This time, it didn’t, I booked our flights, Indy to Minneapolis via Chicago – Midway – 90 minute layover, no problem.
 
Before we even left the house our, flight out of Indy was delayed 45 minutes. Then 55. Then 75. By the time we reached the airport, it was clear we couldn’t make our connection. I told Sari it would be a miracle of miracles. We went straight to the ticket counter, and the agent was able to rebook us on a later flight out of Chicago. A longer layover, yes – but at least we had a way to get there before the early morning meeting.
 
When we landed in Chicago, I got a notification that our original flight to Minneapolis was delayed and would start boarding in 20 minutes. Could we make it? We decided to try. We hurried from one end of Terminal B to the far end of Terminal A. At the gate, a kind ticket agent smiled, rebooked our rebooking, and got us back on the original flight. We were the last ones to board—but miracle of miracles—we made it! My stress melted away, and today I’m enjoying a peaceful day on a beautiful campus.
 
The lesson – Proverbs 16:9, “In their hearts humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” I had the plan, I chose the flights. My carefully arranged schedule seemed to unravel – but God had a another plan. When I thought everything was falling apart (and I needed to fix it), He whispered, “Watch this,” and worked things out in a way I could never have planned myself.
 
How much stress and worry could I let go of if I truly trust God with every detail? The straightest distance between two points is not always God’s plan. Traffic, connections, delays but God says lessons to learn, faith to grow. His plans are good, even when mine seemingly fall apart. So, whether your journey goes exactly as planned or takes an unexpected detour, remember: He directs your steps, and He is always good.
 
Today, take a deep breath and thank God for the gift of this moment. Look around at the beauty of His creation and rest in the assurance that every delay, every detour, and every destination has a divine purpose in his plan.

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In But Not Of

Some of you know that I recently started driving a shuttle for FastPark, an off-site parking facility near the Indianapolis airport. I haven’t kept it a secret, but I haven’t exactly shouted it from the rooftops either. Before the rumors start—yes, I’m still fully employed at Eagle Church and have no plans to leave anytime soon. And yes, the Harris family is doing just fine; this isn’t about the money.

The story has more to do with things like taxes, social security, Medicare, and long-term planning—but that’s not really the reason I’m writing this. For years, I’ve said that driving an airport shuttle would be my dream retirement gig. So, once a week, you might spot me behind the wheel of one of those green shuttles, heading off the lot with a handful of passengers bound for Zone 3.

What I didn’t anticipate was how this little side job would open doors for me to live out the gospel in the same way many of you do every single week. For nearly 38 years, my work has been within the “church bubble,” surrounded mostly by other believers in a pretty pro-Christian environment. I’ve often preached about claiming your workplace as your mission field—looking for ways to represent Christ among your coworkers. I’ve had some chances to do that over the years when my kids were involved in sports, but lately, my life has been almost entirely inside the bubble.

The other morning, as I was praying, God directed my attention to John 17. Many believe this is what Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane the night He was betrayed. In that prayer, Jesus talks about how He has prepared His followers for their mission—to take His message to the world—and how He has set them apart for that purpose. Then He says,

“My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it… As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world.”

We often repeat the phrase, “We are in the world but not of it.” Two kingdoms operate side by side: the kingdom of darkness and the Kingdom of Heaven—the kingdom of light. As believers, we are sent into the darkness, not to blend in, but to shine. Every day, we live according to the values of another kingdom—one built on light and truth—with confidence that God will answer Jesus’ prayer to protect us from the evil one. That doesn’t mean we’re safe from harm, persecution, or even death, but it does mean we are secure in our relationship with God and our eternal destiny with Him.

So wherever you find yourself this week—at work, at school, or running errands—remember that God has placed you in your corner of the world to reflect the light of heaven. I’m thankful for M, I, K, T, J, and others whose worlds I get to step into every Monday night.

As you go about your day, live with the confidence that Jesus has prayed for you—to be in the world, but not of it; protected, but sent; ordinary in setting, yet extraordinary in purpose. May your everyday moments become sacred opportunities for the world to see that Jesus was sent by God and that He loves them deeply.

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When it rains…

A couple of months ago, while mowing the yard, I noticed the grass in front of the house was wetter than expected. Since there hadn’t been any rain, I assumed Sari had watered the plants and some sprayed onto the grass. Yet, the next time I mowed, the same soggy patch greeted me. Last Tuesday, Sari went out again to water the plants and found the ground ‘squishy’—far too wet for the little rain we’ve had.

Curious, I grabbed a shovel and started digging, unsure what I’d find. After reaching just below the slab foundation and uncovering nothing but muddy water, I called Riley, our small group’s resident plumber—every small group needs one, trust me. Riley and Hannah arrived, shovels in hand, and it wasn’t long before Riley noticed a tiny black spot in the grout line of the cinder block. As he cleaned the area, water started visibly seeping out through a small crack in the cement.

Riley asked about the crawl space, but remember, I dug the hole just below the SLAB.  That meant we were facing a slab leak. Some pipe encased in the concrete beneath the house was leaking and soaking the yard. For all the novice plumbers out there: this isn’t good news! Was it the hose spigot, the shower, the toilet, or the sink right on the other side of that wall?

We shut off water to the spigot and decided to keep using the bathroom and try the process of elimination. After about 36 hours, the puddle began to subside. As I write this, we still don’t know exactly where the leak originates, but one thing is clear: fixing it likely won’t be simple. If you have a crawl space or a basement, you can find and fix the leak with minimal disruption. With a slab leak, sometimes the foundation—meaning the bathroom floor—must be broken apart to reach the problem pipe and make repairs.

I’ve been a pastor long enough to know that there’s a sermon illustration hiding in every situation. Sometimes, God has to break us before He can fix us. To repair a bad pipe, you may need to break a good foundation. God, in His wisdom and mercy, knows exactly what needs to be broken in us—those foundational thoughts or habits—to address the sin leaking out of our lives. Scripture gives us many pictures of this truth.

Paul thought he was serving God by persecuting Christians—until Jesus confronted and broke him on the road to Damascus, restoring him to be God’s “chosen instrument” (Acts 9). Job suffered through brokenness and emerged refined, saying, “But He knows the way that I take; when He has tested me, I will come forth as gold” (Job 23:10). John the Baptist declared, “He must become greater; I must become less” (John 3:30).

Brokenness in the Bible is often the doorway to healing and wholeness. Brokenness leads to breakthrough. Sometimes our foundations need to be busted to repair the sinfulness we harbor in our hearts. It’s not pleasant and can feel costly, but the result brings true healing.

So ask yourself: Is God breaking up old habits, sinful patterns, or bad attitudes in your life? Is there pride needing to be broken into humility, self-sufficiency into dependence on the Holy Spirit, greed into generosity, anger into peace, addiction into meaning and purpose?

May we trust the hands of our loving God, knowing that when He breaks us, it’s always for the sake of making us whole again.

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SOLD!

Sold!

Auctions! I love them! Growing up, I remember going to estate sales with my dad. We usually weren’t searching for anything specific—sometimes the estate belonged to someone he knew, and other times we were simply looking for a good deal. My dad always knew who the regular bidders were—the ones who bought items to resell. He taught me to watch them, then go one bid higher and you knew you got a good deal. They always knew what the item was worth.

When we were first married, Sari and I would attend auctions looking for furniture or household items. Personally, I always kept an eye out for tools of any kind. It’s been a while since I’ve been to a live auction, but lately, I discovered Mr. Bid Auctions, an online auction site, and my old addiction has resurfaced! I’ve scored a lot of things—office furniture, tools, even a Bo Jackson jersey. The draw for me is the spirit of competition and the chance to get something for pennies on the dollar. There’s a thrill in holding the winning bid as the timer runs out signaling you’ve won, or when someone sneaks in at the last second, restarting the clock and giving you a chance to think, recalculate, and bid again.

Most of the items purchased at auctions are old—still functional, but well-used. The former owner is done with it, ready to cast it aside. Auctions provide an opportunity to redeem and repurpose someone else’s castoffs. It’s a powerful picture of redemption: buying back something unwanted, something life has dinged, scratched, and deemed worth only pennies. I think you see where this is going.

God does the same for us. Every human being is created by God, in His image, but every one of us is born with a sin nature—an operating system corrupted by Satan and passed down through Adam and Eve. Because of that, we live apart from God. Through life, we get dinged, scratched, and sometimes scarred.

But God (I love those two words, because they always bring good news)—but God, in His mercy and by His grace, has paid the “auctioneer’s price” for us. He has redeemed our broken, sinful lives to restore, repurpose, and give us new life. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve lived, how scarred you are, or how battered your soul may be by sin—God has paid the price.
How much did it cost Him?
        “You are not your own; you were bought at a price.” 1 Corinthians 6:20

        “…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement, through the shedding of his blood—to be received by faith.” Romans 3:23-25


Whenever I have a great auction find, I want to tell everyone about it. But we have an even greater story to share—the story of our own redemption. We are invited to be part of someone else’s redemption story by sharing the good news.
Who will you share your story with this week? Who are you praying for to come to faith in Jesus?

Don’t wait until the timer runs out and the gavel drops!

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Lost and Forgotten!

I talked last week in this post about the lost and found at LIFE Conference. The number of items that started showing up in our office within a couple of hours after groups started arriving. Many things once lost were found. Some within minutes of their being lost. Others sat in the lost and found all five days, never to be claimed. How many of those water bottles, sweatshirts, Bibles?, pieces of jewelry were not only lost but forgotten. The owner didn’t give it a thought, never missed it. Maybe once they got home and a parent asked them where the polaroid camera was that they took with them and probably promised to take care of. Maybe then they thought about it. 

Have you ever felt that way? Lost or forgotten? Sadly it is an all too common emotion in these days of isolation, fake social connection, and digital relationships. People can go through life with a feeling that nobody really knows them or sees them, leading to feelings of nobody cares about me. Rejection from other humans can often lead to feelings of rejection, abandonment from God.  Have you ever felt that God has forgotten you?

Prayers not being answered – for years! Seems like God is too distant to hear. Or worse truly has forgotten you or just doesn’t care. As I have been preparing for the sermon this Sunday, I have been sitting on a part of Joseph’s story that God has used to grab me. Joseph is unjustly thrown in prison and sees no way out. He can’t prove his innocence. The future looks bleak. Until two others share a cell with him and they have dreams that God gives Joseph the interpretation. He shares the meaning of the dreams and asks the one fellow prisoner to remember him when he gets out (getting out of prison was a part of the dream).

Genesis 40:23, “The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.”
And the next verse says, “When two full years had passed.”

Seemingly all hope gone – forgotten to rot in a jail cell. Where is God? Why is this happening? Why are my prayers not being answered? I can only imagine that these questions and more were on Joseph’s mind. And maybe you have had or are in one of those seasons right now. Feeling forgotten. Feeling lonely. Feeling like life as placed you in a pit or a prison and God doesn’t seem to be doing anything about it. 

If you are in that place – the pit or prison, feeling forgotten and alone – I have good news for you. Joseph didn’t die in prison.

“Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, “Since God has made all this known to you, there is no one so discerning and wise as you. You shall be in charge of my palace…”

Hang in there! God knows what awaits you in on the other side of the hurt and loneliness?

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